Hello im 17 and a virgin... I am so lost and confused. Are you supposed to get turned on when you make out?

See I made out with this guy and i felt nothing and i constantly was worrying if im bad kisser.... Anyway I felt nothing for him... Is that bad???? WHen he bit my neck i got shivers and then i freaked and left... I have been told how pretty i am all my life by guys but I cant even do anything because i shy away, dont know what to do...etc. Im utterly hopeless and dont say i will figure it out because I have already tried